23-09-2014, 06:15 PM
(23-09-2014, 04:40 PM)bobie Wrote: Curious how many of us wear a bra in public while presenting as male and how you first found it, I'm in transition and had no intention of wearing a bra until I absolutely had to, that came sooner than planned with the bumpy mountain roads here in the south of France (here for a months holiday), had enough of my tender boobs jiggling about so yesterday I wore a bra in public for the first time, felt a little self conscious at first walking round various French towns and villages with just a t shirt over the top but mum said i looked fine, ended up walking the sea front in cannes where I will confess I caved and put a hoody on uncomfortable with the hundreds of people walking seemingly straight at me
With the exception of straps in the back, T-shirt bras have very little show through.
Compression tanks & t-shirts are also a good option, well at least until you get really big.
That said it's been my experience that the more self-concious I feel about it, the more likely I am to draw attention. Why should I stress out over the opinion of people I don't know and will never see again?