[Missed Miss]

I think you shouldn't HAVE to tell ANYONE if you're ANYWHERE in the process! It's YOUR body and you DON'T need someone else's approval to do what YOU want to with YOUR own body, as long as you're not hurting yourself!! After the fact, if they can't tell, hmmm, how observant are they??
IF you're in transition and someone finds out and opposes it to the point of not wanting to be associated with you anymore, they never REALLY loved you or were your friends to begin with!
The ONLY reason to dislike a family member is if they hurt and/or killed you and/or others!!