07-12-2014, 11:21 PM
Here here! Green with envy that you can present on either side of the fence! That's a beautiful place to be. Welcome to the forum (as a contributor) we need more like you who are willing to join in - its been kinda sparse around here lately. As far as your relationship goes, I agree, it's pretty cool that shes open to exploring a little with you. My wife is similar in that she is straight as an arrow and very conservative but assures me she is in this with me till the end. Nonetheless, it takes a lot of work and lots of communication. Tell her how you feel ALL THE TIME and ask her how she's feeling every day. Here's a quick example from my life. I was recently mistaken from behind for a female. For me it was delightful but it didn't occurred to me that it was the first time my wife experienced that. She was flustered and had to quickly resolve her acceptance of me with the reality that others will perceive me as female. She couldn't immediately identify what she was feeling but we talked our way through it. That kind of thing happens ALL THE TIME. Just keep talking, put yourself in her shoes, go slow and talk, talk talk! Best of luck. Hope to hear from you a lot in the future.

