12-12-2014, 01:46 PM
(This post was last modified: 12-12-2014, 01:50 PM by QTPiChrissie.)
Sorry to derail this thread into something xrated! 
Did you mean the novelty of chastity wore off or of her being dominant?
We bought a metal device and used it for about a month, it helped me learn self control and to understand that all that down there belongs to her and I cant orgasm without her permission (might be shocking to some but it works for us)
There is a cycle of hormones that kicks in when a man orgasms, including a plummeting in oxytocin, an molecule that causes feelings of attachment and bonding. This is why men feel so different immediately after an orgasm. It then takes a couple days to build it back up to that level.
I love the feeling of elevated oxytocin and the lovely connection me and her feel after a few days of chastity and tease and denial.
My gf is hetero but when Im dressed up as a girl when we play she said she was surprised at how turned on she was, so maybe she just isnt being honest with herself! Fingers crossed!
She tried a bull once this fall, he was a nice young guy who was very attractive. She liked it when she was with him but felt very emotional after and wanted to take a break for the time being from that until she could sort out what she wants, but she has told me she fantasizes about a bull nearly every time she is horny!

Did you mean the novelty of chastity wore off or of her being dominant?
We bought a metal device and used it for about a month, it helped me learn self control and to understand that all that down there belongs to her and I cant orgasm without her permission (might be shocking to some but it works for us)
There is a cycle of hormones that kicks in when a man orgasms, including a plummeting in oxytocin, an molecule that causes feelings of attachment and bonding. This is why men feel so different immediately after an orgasm. It then takes a couple days to build it back up to that level.
I love the feeling of elevated oxytocin and the lovely connection me and her feel after a few days of chastity and tease and denial.
My gf is hetero but when Im dressed up as a girl when we play she said she was surprised at how turned on she was, so maybe she just isnt being honest with herself! Fingers crossed!
She tried a bull once this fall, he was a nice young guy who was very attractive. She liked it when she was with him but felt very emotional after and wanted to take a break for the time being from that until she could sort out what she wants, but she has told me she fantasizes about a bull nearly every time she is horny!

