[bryony]

Robyngurl,

I agree with sfem. Bryony has long since held the belief that everyone should be very transparent about NBE with their significant other.

Sfem,

I like your point about not judging people based strictly on the perceptions of others. I wonder if there are many articles that allow both parties to express their views regarding the transitioning process?

Flame,

I find it almost unfathomable that you can think the perceptions of both parties are equivalent and that there is a concept of "very" transparent distinct from "transparent".

The whole point is that the marriage [in the article] is based on a lie. The wife is the injured party. Therefore it is incumbent on the husband to make amends, by agreeing any way forward with the wife, and not just going ahead with it come what may.

I understand it would be hard to grasp by someone who hasn't been married though.

B.