(31-03-2015, 01:52 PM)iaboy Wrote: I guess, Elaine, we are a "kindred" spirit of sorts....
....I guess in my case, I am a true fence sitter on this.
I suppose I'm "on the fence" as well but, not because I want to be.
I'm in a marriage and run a business. If neither existed I would probably spend so much time as "Elaine" I probably would transition.
It's just not practical right now.
I admit I've done a poor job of dealing with my femme feelings and put myself in this position. So, I do things when I'm able.
I wish there was an internet when I was in my early 30's....I probably would have learned I was not alone with my feelings.
I do know however, that one day I will have to deal with things. In fact, from where my NBE will probably be this summer (12 months at end of August) and as much as I like the pool and beach....it's coming.
I worry about it some and in some ways it will probably be a relief.

