[bryony]

I'm just curious and have a question regarding those on the spectrum of gender identity:

While it's obvious, those who despise every bit of their sex and wish to completely be female biologically (if they could chose).

My question is for males who just want to grow breasts.

I think you mean such males who are not attracted to men?

If you were given a chance to chose between being an aesthetically pleasing to the eye male (perfect from head to toe) or an less than attractive female ( unbalanced features that surgery could not fix),

Which would you chose? Of course, it's one or the other. Meaning, you cannot jump from expressing one to the other. As that female, you could never quite pass as one on the street, no matter how much you tried or wanted too.

So which would you chose over the other?

In my case, it would be the former. Part of the problem of my brain development is that the thought of actually being an object that I found desirable became the primary motivator for sexual desire.

Taking PM actually cures me of this desire, temporarily, at least in its obsessive form; I still feel glum about not actually being able to fulfill that desire, but I would far rather present as a male than as a female who clearly appears to still be male - as I would do.

One point you need to consider is that the motivation can change. I now use PM therapeutically to remove my TG obsessions and depression. In doing so, I have rendered myself incapable of using my penis for sex - which is fine, because my wife had stopped enjoying penetrative sex post-menopause, and I could only use it with transsexual fantasy. However, the PM enabled my breasts to become orgasmic with a refractory period counted in seconds... with no fantasy visualisation required. All in all I have benefited tremendously, psychologically.

B.

PS I will now be out for a week. Holidays here in the UK.