02-04-2015, 07:36 AM
(02-04-2015, 07:09 AM)ELLACRAIG Wrote:(02-04-2015, 07:00 AM)Lotus Wrote:(02-04-2015, 06:28 AM)TibetanPrincess Wrote: of course and that's especially today's world, very common... But it's not ideal nature.
It truly serves no actual purpose on a straight male's body. Unless you're in some land of the lost with a baby to feed in your arms.
I'm straight, no CD tendencies or TG desires, it wasn't even a blip on my radar. I have gay friends, have gone to gay bars, but everybody knew I was straight. I was hit on from both sides, male/female. When gyno hit me started I did freak, I had a mammogram and it confirmed the diagnosis. And mine came from a combination of pain-med/thyroid/poor diiet and lots of coffee.
In my case it creeped up on me, I fought it a first, then educated myself about it. Then I found Breast Nexus, I lurkerd for about a year. Fast forward..... I'm here ....and yes, now I want breasts and a nice curvy shape. That's the only two things I'll change. I'd never changed my face, voice or snip snip.
I don't want to be completely female, nor do I want to loose my maleness.
I don't think wifey would be too happy if you had a snip snip..
maybe some more babies in your future Lx
Shoot she'd be happy for snip, we're done making babies, so yeah, a snip might be in store
......I support individual freedom. You want boobs?, great, you wish to transition?, super, you're a fence sitter?, that's cool too. Whatever the choice, do it safely and have support from the ones who are close to you. If you can't get the support?, find it professionally. Going through it alone is pretty tough. (Find a support group), or find some support here.
talk about it, don't bottle it up. Hearing descriptions like "us Trangseneders" or "men are cowards" or even "you men don't belong" isn't a representation of the whole of BN. We can certainly do better. Acceptance is a pretty useful tool if practiced....


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