[TibetanPrincess]

I do not personally know any straight woman who would want to find out their mates are on a breast growth journey. That should say something.

I think all it says is you probably only associate with women who think like you. The way I see it, there are a infinite number of things for couples to disagree about: finances, politics, religion, childrearing, in-laws, careers, vacations, house improvement projects, etc. Short of dating a person that has a mindset that is a carbon copy of yours, disagreements are bound to arise over both major and minor issues. I think ultimately the question is whether the relationship is more significant than the problems incurred by the disagreements. NBE is just one of many things that can test the strength of a relationship.

So yes, I classify straight males wanting to grow breasts for self fulfillment SICK, its selfish!

Ok. Why are you on the bio-male section of BN then? Are you trolling or do you really think you can change all of us by dispensing your vitriol?

I, like many women would not be turned on if he had breasts. That is a natural reaction from a biologically straight female perspective.

Ok. As far as I know, no bio-male here is pursuing NBE with the hopes of breast development being a sexual turn-on for their female partner.

Keep in mind though this works both ways. You may or may not know there are a number of physical conditions women may have that are a turn off for many men. Perhaps your tone will change if/when you find yourself being criticized by men for having one or more of these unattractive traits? Or would you write off such men as being shallow and insensitive?

Trust me, I know, I've been there. I have a severe thyroid and adrenal condition. I lost a lot of my curves became hirsute and started losing my hair. I also did not look like myself! I can easily see how a man/ mate would not find me as attractive and even say something about it. My libido was shot. My face rounded and puffed. It was sadly disgusting.
Actually, I would not be one to call my mate shallow or insensitive.
It's not ideal for women to be hirsute / with severe androgenic features, a smashed libido, etc. It's unfortunately common. And it's no one's fault , but past genetics, blame your ancestors if you must. It's just the way it is.


@JANET, you are obviosly straight, but on the spectrum. If you truly truly believe you are a straight man and not at all attracted to males, than yes, I can see how your wife feels on the matter. That's the issue i'm a dressing(not anyone who is TG /variant.
It's just how most biologically straight women feel. Don't think it's that you are a" bad person," its just that she did not sign up for that. You need to find a mate early on that is attracted to the whole package.