06-04-2015, 09:51 AM
(05-04-2015, 07:18 PM)ELLACRAIG Wrote:And, just so y'all know, I'm NOT JUST looking to get laid, I'd MUCH rather have a serious, LONG-lasting relationship!!(05-04-2015, 11:02 AM)WantAPair Wrote:(05-04-2015, 09:42 AM)ELLACRAIG Wrote: we get let down too WAP , boy do we get let down! I won't even begin to delve into the disappointments and heartbreaks I've experienced in my life. A lot of which brought me right here to BN. So like I said!!!! We all have our reasons for being here and I dont judge anyone for what they are doing . PERIOD.I know, Ella. I've had a LOT of women cry on my shoulder over the years and I do whatever I can to help them out. I've already kept at least two of them from killing themselves! About 8 years ago, I lost the best friend I ever had (one of the two whose life I saved) to a major league asshole and I so DESPERATELY needed a shoulder to cry on!!!! The best I could do was write e-mails or make a few phone calls!! That just doesn't cut it!! (Thankfully, she drop-kicked his rotten ass 2 years ago and we are now best friends again.) And it's ALWAYS like that for me! I help others in need, but there's never anybody to help me!
I know Wap. I've met many guys in my life who unfortunately get put into the friend zone all to often. You are older than me but in my experience they always ended up finding a wonderful person, later than they wanted but it always happened. That's all I can offer you.

