28-04-2015, 08:20 PM
I have to agree with tibetanprincess....Your wifes unacceptance of your moobs and dressing up....is her right. You admit you were in denial and you still in denial and confused (as you have stated) of many other things.
Bottom line...you are who you are and doing what you want to do....your wife also has that right.
You both need to be in agreement, honest and open, which she seems to be doing, you on the other hand, just want all secret...just you two...just the way you wants it... and your having a hard time because shes not playing ball your way.
Bottom line stop the hiding, the denial and trying to make your wife accept all of who you are and what you like doing. It don't sound like she wants to and she is not happy with everything about your dressing up, moobs and your marriage together.
Yes wake up and smell the coffee son..this is a reason for divorce. Your first mistake was not being 100% up front with your wife from the very beginning. And, not being 100% yourself 24/7 moobs and all.
My advice find you someone who will accept everything just like you wants it secret dressing up, moobs and all. You will be happy with no confusion, no denial, no guessing how your partner feels- because she will be honest and tell you, .....no trying and trying with someone who does not see things the same way you do...etc..etc...You both have a right to be happy in a marriage where you both love everything about each other and agree on everything regarding; dressing, moobs, sex, how you look, who you want to tell or not tell...etc..etc.... agreements, truth and acceptance of each other ...thats a true marriage.
Stop being confused, no more hiding and start being happy with who you truly are.
Good luck. I'm rooting for you being 100% who you are from here on.. to everyone who knows you in your life. That is true freedom and happiness.
Bottom line...you are who you are and doing what you want to do....your wife also has that right.
You both need to be in agreement, honest and open, which she seems to be doing, you on the other hand, just want all secret...just you two...just the way you wants it... and your having a hard time because shes not playing ball your way.
Bottom line stop the hiding, the denial and trying to make your wife accept all of who you are and what you like doing. It don't sound like she wants to and she is not happy with everything about your dressing up, moobs and your marriage together.
Yes wake up and smell the coffee son..this is a reason for divorce. Your first mistake was not being 100% up front with your wife from the very beginning. And, not being 100% yourself 24/7 moobs and all.
My advice find you someone who will accept everything just like you wants it secret dressing up, moobs and all. You will be happy with no confusion, no denial, no guessing how your partner feels- because she will be honest and tell you, .....no trying and trying with someone who does not see things the same way you do...etc..etc...You both have a right to be happy in a marriage where you both love everything about each other and agree on everything regarding; dressing, moobs, sex, how you look, who you want to tell or not tell...etc..etc.... agreements, truth and acceptance of each other ...thats a true marriage.
Stop being confused, no more hiding and start being happy with who you truly are.
Good luck. I'm rooting for you being 100% who you are from here on.. to everyone who knows you in your life. That is true freedom and happiness.