[SarahSchilling]

The other night, this guy was sitting kinda close, like all up on my hip. There was plenty of room on the other side of him.It's just different somehow when a guy sits next to me or talks to me now. (yes, I am stealth aside from a few trusted friends. It's kind of a hard topic to bring up and doesn't seem like a big deal anymore.)

If a girl did the same thing it wouldn't be an issue at all, but when a guy does it it's like "whoa, what does this mean"?

I'm pretty sure this had absolutely nothing to do with my breasts! Also pretty sure I was bi to begin with! The way that people treat you does tend to tilt the sexual preference balance a bit though! (and breasts, among other things, can change the way that people treat you.)