12-05-2015, 01:48 PM
(12-05-2015, 09:55 AM)SarahSchilling Wrote: The other night, this guy was sitting kinda close, like all up on my hip. There was plenty of room on the other side of him.It's just different somehow when a guy sits next to me or talks to me now. (yes, I am stealth aside from a few trusted friends. It's kind of a hard topic to bring up and doesn't seem like a big deal anymore.)
If a girl did the same thing it wouldn't be an issue at all, but when a guy does it it's like "whoa, what does this mean"?
I'm pretty sure this had absolutely nothing to do with my breasts! Also pretty sure I was bi to begin with! The way that people treat you does tend to tilt the sexual preference balance a bit though! (and breasts, among other things, can change the way that people treat you.)
Well I guess you could call it being "BI", but I can say I never was into being with a guy as a guy
I was only into being submissive with men and Id never want to "top" any dude and I had a lot trouble doing that even with women... Im sure you don't consider it "gay" to get with a guy now right??? That used to really mess with me!!! It's clear now of course... That said while Im mainly attracted to men now and very comfortable around men as a woman that wasn't always the case and I used to be much more attracted to women... Now of course Id consider it "gay" to get with another girl and I'll admit that has more than a little appeal, just not in my current configuration

No it has nothing to do with my breasts but everything to do with how I and the rest of the world see's me now


