[EvaMarie]

The other night, this guy was sitting kinda close, like all up on my hip. There was plenty of room on the other side of him.It's just different somehow when a guy sits next to me or talks to me now. (yes, I am stealth aside from a few trusted friends. It's kind of a hard topic to bring up and doesn't seem like a big deal anymore.)

If a girl did the same thing it wouldn't be an issue at all, but when a guy does it it's like "whoa, what does this mean"?

I'm pretty sure this had absolutely nothing to do with my breasts! Also pretty sure I was bi to begin with! The way that people treat you does tend to tilt the sexual preference balance a bit though! (and breasts, among other things, can change the way that people treat you.)

Well I guess you could call it being "BI", but I can say I never was into being with a guy as a guy I was only into being submissive with men and Id never want to "top" any dude and I had a lot trouble doing that even with women... Im sure you don't consider it "gay" to get with a guy now right??? That used to really mess with me!!! It's clear now of course... That said while Im mainly attracted to men now and very comfortable around men as a woman that wasn't always the case and I used to be much more attracted to women...
Now of course Id consider it "gay" to get with another girl and I'll admit that has more than a little appeal, just not in my current configuration

No it has nothing to do with my breasts but everything to do with how I and the rest of the world see's me now

LOL, well I'm engaged to a transgender girl. Labels like "gay" seem rather arbitrary at this point! It just gets too complicated, and really doesn't mean anything, aside from societal stigma.

I'm attracted to men and women, so bi just covers all my bases. Face it sweetie, as far as the people who care about someone being gay are concerned.....we all are totally gay!! (As in atypical)

Those people don't matter though lol

Oh I agree with ya Sis, yes particularly a pre op TS woman is seen by most cis people as super queer and I cant really blame them because they will never truly get this shit anyway

Its not like Im not WAY over the whole "gay" deal, I am... Its just that as far as males go two "men" getting it on is what I consider "gay" and I don't consider myself a man Problem is finding a guy who truly see's it the same way and doesn't just look at me like some kink or fetish like some porno fantasy.... Until that's fixed that's the shit I gotta live with and it does suck