[sfem]

... which gender I must express for the moment ... id just chose one damn sex to express rather than expect the world to except that id rather complicate things by trying to express both publicly.
Plus, reincarnation is A major factor.
... don't act like you (as many term: in betweens) arent causing your own grief. ...its entitlement and selfishness.
Fwiw, Ive asked straight men why ...

Excellent! We now move on to the mystical part of the discourse, throw in some blindly binary perspectives, add victim blaming for flavour, and finally with a little taste of seeking the advice of folks who aren't involved in, or aware of, the discussion.

I can't wait to see the next direction that the wind blows you. Do you think you could work in some thoughts from a seance? I've always enjoyed those.