[Rayve]

There's a whole back story that goes beyond this thread. The assumption that whatever "was" there should've been addressed before marriage or long term relationship is ludicrous if you didn't know such desires existed.

People want to throw in their two cents, fine, no problem, knock yourself out, why not get the whole story before judgement is passed.

We don't call people stupid here, I'd be careful.

Well first off, I never called you stupid. I said you were dense which basically means you are a difficult person to reach as in guarded. I don't for a moment think you are stupid. I have read many of your posts and they are filled with great things.

And your right, I didn't know the story and can only put my perspective into things. Like I said, I should have just avoided this entirely. I just saw a bunch of people teaming up on someone mainly for sharing her opinion.

And maybe I am wrong as well but a intelligent and powerful person I call things as I see them. And I agree if you had never known. I didn't know about mine either for years and mainly stayed single due to the confusion end.

I'll just leave this thread. Bye.