15-06-2015, 07:37 AM
Dianna
My suggestion is to take a step back and evaluate things. What conditions have motivated you to consider lacing your SO's food to change them? If it didn't work, how bad are things getting? What would the next step be? How would you feel/react if your wife or other family member tried this with you or tried to forcibly change you?
If in-home conflict has escalated bitterness and contempt to this point, it would be wiser and healthier to split ways -- before either of you are pushed beyond your limits and do something extreme.
From everything you've posted now and before, I would strongly suggest to walk away. It will be the best thing for you, and everyone around you.
These kinds of thoughts are not healthy, Dianna, I'm glad that you paused to post your question rather than guessing and trying.
I sincerely hope you reconsider these thoughts as well as your current path. Take care and please walk the higher ground.
My suggestion is to take a step back and evaluate things. What conditions have motivated you to consider lacing your SO's food to change them? If it didn't work, how bad are things getting? What would the next step be? How would you feel/react if your wife or other family member tried this with you or tried to forcibly change you?
If in-home conflict has escalated bitterness and contempt to this point, it would be wiser and healthier to split ways -- before either of you are pushed beyond your limits and do something extreme.
From everything you've posted now and before, I would strongly suggest to walk away. It will be the best thing for you, and everyone around you.
These kinds of thoughts are not healthy, Dianna, I'm glad that you paused to post your question rather than guessing and trying.
I sincerely hope you reconsider these thoughts as well as your current path. Take care and please walk the higher ground.