[Miranda-nata-est]

Lotus, my heart goes out to you.

God speed for a quick and full recovery of your offspring. It is a terrible thing when one's children are in any form of distress, let alone something like this.



I really don't see conspiracies either. Sometimes it takes a jolt to put things into perspective.

I am currently considering whether BN is still the place for me. I suffer tears daily at the thought of the loss that leaving here will entail - these new found emotions are still very tricky to deal with.

It is because of the people here that this decision is so difficult to make. I have just said the same in the 'Females staying Females' thread. For 2 years now, the people here have been my sole source of outside help during my discovery of who I am. Whilst not always commenting, I have poured over threads for hours on most days, soaking up the facts and the implications and in a way the regular posters almost become a part of you as family members. It is for this reason that a decision to leave is so hard. You are walking away from a community which has had the major influence on the creation of the person you have become.

It grieves me to see splits developing. Although I don't see so many candidates at the moment, there will be others to follow who need the same sort of nurturing, care and love that I have experienced here in order to find themselves and in some cases to totally change the direction of their lives. This is the power of this site. This is also the power of playing with NBE. Breast Nexus HAS TO STAY INTACT - it is just too important a resource to let petty rifts destroy its welcoming, all encompassing nature.


You and yours will be in my thoughts Lotus, hope it all turns out OK.


Miranda