21-07-2015, 03:01 PM
This is one of the reason's why I thought we needed a section like this. The problems we face or have to think about are not like that of a TG. I mean some of them parallel, but I think ours are different in the fact that if I ever wanted to go TG, and people couldn't or wouldn't accept me, I would just do it and expect them peeps not to be a part of my life, end of story.
But with us, or peeps like us, we want our cake and eat it too.
I truly started developing Gynecomastia due to the heart meds and lack of circulation from belly button down due to P.A.D.. So, my wife knows I didn't immediately start down this path on my own. But I am also 60 had 4 children and 11 Grand Kids, so for me, I don't care if I am fertile anymore.
My wife knows what I am doing, and over the last year, especially, has accepted the fact of me intentionally growing breasts. She also on occasion helps me shop or makes suggestions on what bra's to stay away from etc.
I am at the point in my life, I do not go out of my way to be flamboyant, in your face or any of that. But, I am tired with putting up pretenses on who or what I am. I would not trade fatherhood, nor being a male EVER on a permanent basis, but love the fact that I can turn into female for a few hours per week or month depending on mood and opportunities.
Great thought Without. Way to show the reason why this can be a special place, within a special place of BN.
But with us, or peeps like us, we want our cake and eat it too.
I truly started developing Gynecomastia due to the heart meds and lack of circulation from belly button down due to P.A.D.. So, my wife knows I didn't immediately start down this path on my own. But I am also 60 had 4 children and 11 Grand Kids, so for me, I don't care if I am fertile anymore.
My wife knows what I am doing, and over the last year, especially, has accepted the fact of me intentionally growing breasts. She also on occasion helps me shop or makes suggestions on what bra's to stay away from etc.
I am at the point in my life, I do not go out of my way to be flamboyant, in your face or any of that. But, I am tired with putting up pretenses on who or what I am. I would not trade fatherhood, nor being a male EVER on a permanent basis, but love the fact that I can turn into female for a few hours per week or month depending on mood and opportunities.
Great thought Without. Way to show the reason why this can be a special place, within a special place of BN.