[The First Aria]

I know it has been a while since I replied here. I haven't been frequenting this site for a couple months.

So much has happened since I wrote everything above. I found out that she had been cheating, with another woman. I don't want to debate what's considered "cheating". She said she only went as far as kissing, and chest groping. It sent me over the edge.

She wasn't living at the house when I found out, but she was when it happened (back in early may).

I have had the most scary, intense and insane few months. We got to the point where I was talking to a divorce lawyer and we were talking about how to move forward.

Things started simmering down. We went to marriage counseling together. The counselor referred her to an independent therapist so that she could figure out if she was straight or gay. She saw that therapist a handful of times.. Didn't seem to get anywhere with her. She started working again, which put her in a really good mood..

She moved back in like a month and a half ago. A few weeks ago, she committed herself to our relationship and its been amazing. She's like a new person.. Excited to explore me and enjoy the changes. She's actually been happy for the first time in a VERY long time. We have had a couple small arguments, and from what happened, I'm very hesitant about giving in to the relationship.

Life is getting better, and I'm praying that this continues.

I always say this, but I'm typing on my phone and can explain in greater detail later. Thank you all for the advice!

Glad to find out that you got to the bottom of the situation. I do hope things work out. The world does not need another broken marriage, or a bad one either.