[The First Aria]

I think you are at least 1/2 right....

Think of it this way. As "boys", we are programmed from birth to act, feel and think a certain way.....

Now, in my case... When I got interested in cross dressing, one of the draw backs was having to stuff bra's, either with fake boobs or other objects. It took away any satisfaction having to do so.

But since my heart attack, and the associated meds, gave me gynecomastia and my attempts with helping and steer it.... It was a blessing in disguise.

But with the hormonal changes, also comes an upending of one's traditional thinking, role and I believe as a result a total changing tide of likes, dislikes and attitudes.

I think the He-men, that transition fully has had that buried deep within the soul. But for what ever reason they were driven to fulfill it.

Maybe for us that like to feminize, but not change teams fully at this moment maybe fooling themselves. OR, like me... I feel that Cross Dressing is just a way to escape, relax and tell the world to go to hell, if only for a few hrs.

In other words, it's just a degree. Hence the whole spectrum involved.