[Lenneth]

Lenneth,

I still have the question of how should parents raise intersex children? People very rarely see genitalia before identifying whether a person is male or female. Confusion arises when it's difficult to easily identify a person as being male or female. This isn't something just with physical sex, but numerous other categories such as age. It can be quite a surprise to learn someone is much younger or much older than they appear. Height is another category of this. Most children are short in stature while most adults are of taller stature. Dwarfism and gigantism throws a wrench in this trend.

Ultimately my point is we don't live in a gender-neutral society. Consider this, what are the most common questions parents are asked about their children? I would say name, age and sex. Do parents leave it to their children to decide whether they want to be called a boy or girl? Should parents even tell their children they are intersex?

watch the videos, they answered those questions.