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Jade,

Yes, I find your response quite helpful.

In my mind, CD and gender bending has always been polar opposites. The former thrives on excitement and daring, while the latter is more calming and collected. Granted, both sides may end up at the same destination, but they would have had very different journeys. One pushes, the other rationalizes.

Spoked,

I liked how you say you wear bras for shape. Previously my mind about bras was it's about support (or hiding wayward nipples.) Wearing bras for shape definitely sounds like it could suit me.

I'm disappointed to hear the tank tops with good shelf bras has been discontinued! I tried to find some on Amazon, but it seems they all have narrow straps. If you find anymore good bra/tank tops please let me know.