23-09-2015, 03:05 PM
I think if everyone looked at all of the responses, not by whom, when but the body of the posts, you can find a little of yourself in all of them. Maybe not even in the one you may of been the author of. Just goes to show that there are many facets and sub equations.
Yet how come we go to a professional, be it a doctor a shrink, marriage counselor expecting a straight, quick and decisive cure from what many think is an imbalance? I think rather than a cure we seek, is more of a validation???? To prove to ourselves that as long as it brings no harm, then there is no foul. I think that is the biggest goal that I am searching for.
Proof, that I am who I am, still a good loving person who defends those he cares about. So what, if I should ever get up enough guts, stupidity to wear a dress in public or men's clothing. What's the difference for I am NOT showing any genitalia, nor in anyone's face to prove that I may do so.
Yet how come we go to a professional, be it a doctor a shrink, marriage counselor expecting a straight, quick and decisive cure from what many think is an imbalance? I think rather than a cure we seek, is more of a validation???? To prove to ourselves that as long as it brings no harm, then there is no foul. I think that is the biggest goal that I am searching for.
Proof, that I am who I am, still a good loving person who defends those he cares about. So what, if I should ever get up enough guts, stupidity to wear a dress in public or men's clothing. What's the difference for I am NOT showing any genitalia, nor in anyone's face to prove that I may do so.