09-11-2015, 04:11 PM
(09-11-2015, 10:30 AM)Ellie Wrote: Spent another weekend en femme with a friend who I haven't seen since June. This time we were out in my home city. :o Went shopping on Saturday and bar crawling with him all day on Sunday. ^_^ It was really great fun.
So far all my friends have been completely accepting over how I present myself, and it's almost as if they are blind to it. This is a good thing.
Since starting this thread I've had more time to think about it, and at the moment leaning towards an androgyne identity. One thing that's making me think this is that I have absolutely no preference on pronouns, and have said so to anyone that has asked. I ask them to use whichever pronouns come naturally to them since it makes no difference to me either way. Interesting thing is they seem to stop using pronouns altogether after that. ^_^ haha. They just refer to me by name instead of s/he, her/him.
I can live with that label. Maybe it will change with time and maybe the Thursday appointment will make things clearer. I still worry it may be a cop out. Oh well. Feeling a bit better anyway. Thanks for the support friends.
Good on ya Ellie!
I'm sure you have made the right decision. As time passes you will know the right path too follow. And the therapist can have a peak in your head to clear out the pink fog.
Your wise beyond your years.
Bobbi


