I have had both ears pierced for nearly 20 years tho one is sort of crooked. I went for several years without earrings but they were still pierced when I put earrings in

I had an eyebrow piercing once but it came out fairly quickly :/

I have several tattoos tho a few are icky. On my shoulder is an unfinished cross from when I was in a boys' home as a teen (we got caught) and one is a stooopid tat that was originally my gf's name then turned into Stoner (ugh) when I was 14 and a cross on my finger which also looks like a jail tat but is easily hidden. The others are ... meh .. I like them but some not exactly femme nor really butch either: A biohazard sign (idea given by a gf), Marvin the Martian, A triquetra ala "Charmed". I also have a tribal band on my ankle (that one hurt) and a pair of bound eagle feathers my shoulder. Those last two my departed wife had on her shoulder and ankle as well.

I live in an area where tattoos are quite common (Pacific Northwest) so they don't stand out as much...