18-12-2015, 05:52 PM
It's hard to give a meaningful response when the outcome and effects do not end up causing the responder any hardship. However I'll put a few things down for you.
After the length of time you have been living together, it has to count for something . my feeling are you owe it to both of you to work this out. The daughter needs to be told before she moves home, It's on the girlfriend to decide if she wants to stay in the family home or not. Therapy !! Sure you can try it, if electric shock cannot cure us I doubt talking to a shrink will help. The therapy stands a chance of getting both of you to see the others side.
It's a crapshoot, I do not envy your position one little bit. But she needs to understand this is not going away, if anything if she does not accept or like what you are doing now then she needs to relise it's going to go even more, the further down the road you go. Let her the know the chance of you transitioning is very strong, so she needs to either put up, or make a decision on her next move.
Good luck
After the length of time you have been living together, it has to count for something . my feeling are you owe it to both of you to work this out. The daughter needs to be told before she moves home, It's on the girlfriend to decide if she wants to stay in the family home or not. Therapy !! Sure you can try it, if electric shock cannot cure us I doubt talking to a shrink will help. The therapy stands a chance of getting both of you to see the others side.
It's a crapshoot, I do not envy your position one little bit. But she needs to understand this is not going away, if anything if she does not accept or like what you are doing now then she needs to relise it's going to go even more, the further down the road you go. Let her the know the chance of you transitioning is very strong, so she needs to either put up, or make a decision on her next move.
Good luck