19-12-2015, 12:00 AM
Jean,
To be blunt, I think you should fulfill any current agreements you made with your GF and then tell her to move out and move on with her life. She's not your wife, and as far as I know, you're not the father of her daughter (please correct me if I'm mistaken). According to her, she's doing it all, so it shouldn't matter to her if you decide to end all ties with her and her daughter.
Even without the issue of NBE, it sounds like you have a toxic relationship with this woman. Don't allow her to be abusive towards you any longer than absolutely necessary. I think the only "manning up" you need to do is getting yourself out of this dreadful situation.
To be blunt, I think you should fulfill any current agreements you made with your GF and then tell her to move out and move on with her life. She's not your wife, and as far as I know, you're not the father of her daughter (please correct me if I'm mistaken). According to her, she's doing it all, so it shouldn't matter to her if you decide to end all ties with her and her daughter.
Even without the issue of NBE, it sounds like you have a toxic relationship with this woman. Don't allow her to be abusive towards you any longer than absolutely necessary. I think the only "manning up" you need to do is getting yourself out of this dreadful situation.