[jannet.duff]

My advice is this :go with the name that "feels right" or sings to you. One that makes you happy to hear it said, afterall, you will be hearing it the rest of your life.

...

That being said, choose wisely.

^^^ This! I still like my male name but it isn't working. It needs explanation every time I meet someone new.

EDIT : My dad has just made me a beautiful silver pendent with a stylized version of my first initial. This is going to reduce the options ^_^

Although I like Jannet, my wife hates it. On top of that whenever I meet or introduce myself to somebody new, they always seem to think I said Janice. So who knows, maybe i might change my name down the road ??