[Dana Mantra Eon]

Alright, I'll do the best I can. I'm asking because I'm confused too. So, to get this straight the dichotomy is that one side of your crossdressing is "a [daring and aloof] solo interest geared toward pushing the limits" while the other one is "docile and cuddly that makes [you] want [physical closeness with someone]" I'm hoping that's right? Now, what I'm not understanding is what you mean exactly by the first part. How does being daring, aloof, and especially "pushing limits" somehow create a dichotomy with forming a friendship, physical or otherwise? You call these things a compelling reason to stay single for life? As of yet, I'm not seeing it. That's why I was asking for more clarification. I mean, lots of crossdressers whom I would consider perfectly daring have close or romantic relationships. So just how do these pushed limits dichotomize special relationships? What are they, specifically?