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Not sure what the more learned people here would say. But, I think either BO or PM, not both.

Both of them are great estrogenic herbs, as well as decent anti androgens. I think both would really put too much estrogen in your system and cause a few problems with your body and may even fight each other to some degree.

As far as coffee. I am a fanatic.... I have to drink at least 12 cups per day. Left click on my name and look at my progress page in the picture section. Has it hurt?? Don't think so, but would of progress be better??? Maybe. But I am happy so far.

You definitely have a decent growth going there. so, coffee may not be an issue, hopefully.
As far as the BO goes. I think PM is questionable, it's a possible maybe something may happen using it. BO seems something will happen with it, but it could be a complete life changer.... maybe. I still like being functional, unlike others I've read that wouldn't mind if it fell off.

What works for me currently is green tea extract (EGCg) and a PM-based cream. I have breasts without enlarged/puffy areolas or nipples, and a functioning male part.