20-03-2016, 12:09 PM
This is why I'm in such a dilemma.
There are some strong reasons for not letting my wife of 22 years (my third) know
about Elaine. Even though she really likes two lesbian couples and a gay couple we have as friends and on the surface would seem supportive.
Her second husband left her for another guy back in the late eighties. He did do her wrong as a person ....for instance taking money to pay a car loan but not paying it (repoed) and totally not helping with a child they had.
We have had some fights about my lack of drive as a man and such, even going as far as to saying she's leaving.....which would resolve my problem without having to out myself.
Such a situation we're in. But like others here I take the pM, i feed the inner femme and hope one day I'll be free without hurting anyone.
Good luck in your journey, you're not alone ...and i'm afraid Christina is right.
I know if we had the internet and the ability to come to forums like this.....I'd be single today.....and probably transitioned.
There are some strong reasons for not letting my wife of 22 years (my third) know
about Elaine. Even though she really likes two lesbian couples and a gay couple we have as friends and on the surface would seem supportive.
Her second husband left her for another guy back in the late eighties. He did do her wrong as a person ....for instance taking money to pay a car loan but not paying it (repoed) and totally not helping with a child they had.
We have had some fights about my lack of drive as a man and such, even going as far as to saying she's leaving.....which would resolve my problem without having to out myself.
Such a situation we're in. But like others here I take the pM, i feed the inner femme and hope one day I'll be free without hurting anyone.
Good luck in your journey, you're not alone ...and i'm afraid Christina is right.
I know if we had the internet and the ability to come to forums like this.....I'd be single today.....and probably transitioned.