[jannet.duff]

Well, where do I start. We have been married for 28 years, my wife thought she had married a "real " man not this male person who feels female and wants to start HRT. At best I would say she tolerates me and my quest to be feminine. ( is very vocal in saying if I had been honest and told her if my feeling when we first met, we would have never even dated ) Now, she does quite often go out and buy Jannet clothes, but hates to see me dresses it them. We do have discussions every now and again about were Jannet is heading, and we both realise that sooner or later Jannet will be out full time. The biggest thing holding me back ( and our marrage together ) is we have two sons still living at home. She will reluctantly support me going on HRT as long as I still mostly present as male. She is dead set against me having earrings ( thank god for clipons ) It's not all fun and games, but I pray that by going slow at a pace that helps her feel comfortable, it's going to keep us to married.