28-03-2016, 07:33 AM
My situations sounds pretty similar to Christina's in many ways.
My wife has blown hot and cold over the years, which has led to some pretty fierce rows, but I think that is actually mainly due to issues of her own, not directly to do with me and what I need to do. However, we are currently on an amazing positive roll, not too sure why, but I'm making the most of it!
It started a couple of weeks ago on holiday ( see my post at http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=25950&pid=175642#pid175642 ) but it hasn't stopped, since we've been back she has bought me a skirt, a new wig, and some more makeup, plus we sit and discuss clothes, makeup, etc.
Whilst we were away we did sit down, in the middle of the week, and have a deep discussion like we haven't had since the very beginning and I think we both settled a few uncertainties. It has given me a sense of 'freedom to be me', that I've never felt before.
I think there may be a hurdle to cross in about 3 weeks. She has a hairdresser come to the house about once a month. This lady has become a real friend of hers and I've always taken care to not show anything of my female side when she comes. I asked my wife a couple of days ago if D had ever said anything about me, and I got the reply, "Oh she knows, I told her not to be surprised if she saw anything that seemed odd"!! Soooo, next time she comes I'm planning to give her the full works ( haven't said anything to my wife yet, though!)... If it happens, it will be the first time somebody who knows the male me will have seen and interacted with the female version. It sounds silly, but I keep planning what to wear almost as though I was going on a date!!
My wife has blown hot and cold over the years, which has led to some pretty fierce rows, but I think that is actually mainly due to issues of her own, not directly to do with me and what I need to do. However, we are currently on an amazing positive roll, not too sure why, but I'm making the most of it!
It started a couple of weeks ago on holiday ( see my post at http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=25950&pid=175642#pid175642 ) but it hasn't stopped, since we've been back she has bought me a skirt, a new wig, and some more makeup, plus we sit and discuss clothes, makeup, etc.
Whilst we were away we did sit down, in the middle of the week, and have a deep discussion like we haven't had since the very beginning and I think we both settled a few uncertainties. It has given me a sense of 'freedom to be me', that I've never felt before.
I think there may be a hurdle to cross in about 3 weeks. She has a hairdresser come to the house about once a month. This lady has become a real friend of hers and I've always taken care to not show anything of my female side when she comes. I asked my wife a couple of days ago if D had ever said anything about me, and I got the reply, "Oh she knows, I told her not to be surprised if she saw anything that seemed odd"!! Soooo, next time she comes I'm planning to give her the full works ( haven't said anything to my wife yet, though!)... If it happens, it will be the first time somebody who knows the male me will have seen and interacted with the female version. It sounds silly, but I keep planning what to wear almost as though I was going on a date!!