10-04-2016, 08:43 PM
Yet men are judged by women that same way, and women black-ball (exclude) men frequently. He doesn't just lose a chance with A woman, he loses every chance with any woman in that social circle.
Wear the wrong brand?
Wrong size?
Last year's style? (Yes, she noticed.)
Not assertive enough? Too pushy? Not entertaining enough? Not a fat enough wallet?
And we live in a world where woman sees her value mch higher than it is. A 5 thinks she's an 8, easy... But she acts like a 3 except when she's gussied up trolling for the Alpha male (Mr. Grey, Mr. Big) - and any man who would call her on it "isn't man enough to handle her."
Many men have simply given up on women. And as they expand their finances, they find they can buy plenty of female attention, and toss her away afterwards.... Those same women then complain there are no good men, when they hit the wall imposed by mother nature...
But they have no skills but being entertained.
No cooking.
No sewing.
No finances.
Frequently, they come with debt.
No discipline.
Won't even go down.
And any suggestion - from hiking with you, to buying her a gym membership - is an insult, because she's been told since birth she's a perfect little angel as she is. Whereas a man is told to earn it all, until recently when the Emo idiocy started, and now he's just a big whiny baby she doesn't want anyway...
So now NO ONE is happy. But she refuses to be feminine - and he has never thing to model his behavior on, as the "role models" are generally garbage (Criminals in a sports uniform.)
It's cutting both ways, and the Progressives think driving us all over the cliff leads to Utopia... Mirrors Weimar Germany and Rome.
So we've got no excuse, the lessons are right there.
And for those of us who don't fit in? We deserve respect as human beings, but no special treatment.... We need to earn our wealth, our curves, our tits, our position. Mother Nature gave the girls their pretty bits, we don't even get that. And he nearly, we don't get any goodies as men - that's got lots of problems, too. Strength and power come at a cost, and we are always in competition.
Beauty comes free, but doesn't last.
Currently, we're all losing. Maybe the ancient peoples learned more than we have?
Two sets of expectations. A standard for men, and a standard for women. Live up to it, or be villified.
That includes me, obviously.
But at least then it was clear. Now She can do anything, and He gets the blame. Who wants that....? SHE does.... He doesn't need it, he gets plenty of blame already....
She won't grow up, he's denied even his childhood.
-Dianna
Wear the wrong brand?
Wrong size?
Last year's style? (Yes, she noticed.)
Not assertive enough? Too pushy? Not entertaining enough? Not a fat enough wallet?
And we live in a world where woman sees her value mch higher than it is. A 5 thinks she's an 8, easy... But she acts like a 3 except when she's gussied up trolling for the Alpha male (Mr. Grey, Mr. Big) - and any man who would call her on it "isn't man enough to handle her."
Many men have simply given up on women. And as they expand their finances, they find they can buy plenty of female attention, and toss her away afterwards.... Those same women then complain there are no good men, when they hit the wall imposed by mother nature...
But they have no skills but being entertained.
No cooking.
No sewing.
No finances.
Frequently, they come with debt.
No discipline.
Won't even go down.
And any suggestion - from hiking with you, to buying her a gym membership - is an insult, because she's been told since birth she's a perfect little angel as she is. Whereas a man is told to earn it all, until recently when the Emo idiocy started, and now he's just a big whiny baby she doesn't want anyway...
So now NO ONE is happy. But she refuses to be feminine - and he has never thing to model his behavior on, as the "role models" are generally garbage (Criminals in a sports uniform.)
It's cutting both ways, and the Progressives think driving us all over the cliff leads to Utopia... Mirrors Weimar Germany and Rome.
So we've got no excuse, the lessons are right there.
And for those of us who don't fit in? We deserve respect as human beings, but no special treatment.... We need to earn our wealth, our curves, our tits, our position. Mother Nature gave the girls their pretty bits, we don't even get that. And he nearly, we don't get any goodies as men - that's got lots of problems, too. Strength and power come at a cost, and we are always in competition.
Beauty comes free, but doesn't last.
Currently, we're all losing. Maybe the ancient peoples learned more than we have?
Two sets of expectations. A standard for men, and a standard for women. Live up to it, or be villified.
That includes me, obviously.
But at least then it was clear. Now She can do anything, and He gets the blame. Who wants that....? SHE does.... He doesn't need it, he gets plenty of blame already....
She won't grow up, he's denied even his childhood.
-Dianna