[Sofia Bunny]

I have found that the best laid out plans are bound to go to hell in a hand basket, so I don't bother. I mostly wing it and let the chips land where they may. Also in my case most of the time it is better to ask for forgiveness than permission.

I think that goes for all of us

Well perhaps not all, maybe a good portion though. Either that or perhaps I am just a really crappy planner. . Now that I think about it, it's probably that, I really needed to take into account additional variables, unfortunately a lot of times they were unknown variables.

As for the foregiveness permission thing, I think that is split. It appears there are some pretty open people with open minded SO's that are willing to hear each other out, instead of immediately dismissing the idea before it is even fully laid out. :p