13-04-2016, 06:41 AM
Fire,
I understand your dilemma's, as does pretty much everyone on here. However, IMO, the very fact that you are acknowledging them means that the urges won't go away. The intensity of the itch may vary from time to time, but it will always be there. Having said that, it's better to think it through and plan for things to happen and not leave it to spur of the moment chance. In my experience although spur of the moment can be wonderful, it can also turn into disaster.
I understand your dilemma's, as does pretty much everyone on here. However, IMO, the very fact that you are acknowledging them means that the urges won't go away. The intensity of the itch may vary from time to time, but it will always be there. Having said that, it's better to think it through and plan for things to happen and not leave it to spur of the moment chance. In my experience although spur of the moment can be wonderful, it can also turn into disaster.