13-04-2016, 01:30 PM
Fire,
Seems to me that you and I are fairly similar in basic makeup, the differences probably mostly events of our life.
Given that, there are some things that might work better for you than permanent changes.
Obvious one is using breast forms instead of growing them...
But there are also "inflatable" implants, I understand, which can contain more or less saline. So, you could "Grow" for weekends, and "shrink" for male mode. It means an open port, though.
I didn't have time to get back here last night, but I understand the "loss of family" bit.
From my jaded view - WTF difference does it make? Dad died estranged, my sister won't talk to me, and mom is wasting away, developing glaucoma, and not responding to medication (and won't consider cannabis oil).
That's just from my girlfriend. They didn't/don't know I want to be female...
But one of the reasons I was estranged from them is, I was living in sin with a woman... So they didn't want to talk to me.
Fun, huh? Good Christians.... Worried about my immortal soul, after doing everything they could to crush any semblance of a spirit... And by comparison? My sister (adopted) got everything on a golden platter, including medical insurance, car insurance, car, all paid for by Dad.
We regret a lot of things. I regret losing my family.
But I'm also tired of their nasty, judgemental (hypocritical) attitudes. The insulting things they've said to girlfriends, treating me like a child (at 30, and still now at 40... Treating me like I'm an infant...? Stupid?)
Anyway - Consider what's happening, you need to live with the decision. Being a "people pleaser" has isolated me - how could it be worse if I'd at least pleased myself along the way?
YMMV.
-Dianna
Seems to me that you and I are fairly similar in basic makeup, the differences probably mostly events of our life.
Given that, there are some things that might work better for you than permanent changes.
Obvious one is using breast forms instead of growing them...
But there are also "inflatable" implants, I understand, which can contain more or less saline. So, you could "Grow" for weekends, and "shrink" for male mode. It means an open port, though.
I didn't have time to get back here last night, but I understand the "loss of family" bit.
From my jaded view - WTF difference does it make? Dad died estranged, my sister won't talk to me, and mom is wasting away, developing glaucoma, and not responding to medication (and won't consider cannabis oil).
That's just from my girlfriend. They didn't/don't know I want to be female...
But one of the reasons I was estranged from them is, I was living in sin with a woman... So they didn't want to talk to me.
Fun, huh? Good Christians.... Worried about my immortal soul, after doing everything they could to crush any semblance of a spirit... And by comparison? My sister (adopted) got everything on a golden platter, including medical insurance, car insurance, car, all paid for by Dad.
We regret a lot of things. I regret losing my family.
But I'm also tired of their nasty, judgemental (hypocritical) attitudes. The insulting things they've said to girlfriends, treating me like a child (at 30, and still now at 40... Treating me like I'm an infant...? Stupid?)
Anyway - Consider what's happening, you need to live with the decision. Being a "people pleaser" has isolated me - how could it be worse if I'd at least pleased myself along the way?
YMMV.
-Dianna