28-05-2016, 06:43 AM
Fire,
I'm really sorry you got a bad reaction, but it's pretty common, unfortunately. There is no way for anyone to advise you, because each of us is different and every wife/gf is different, so all we can do is offer our support and understanding.
I'm tempted to say sit down and talk to her calmly, but until you know what you want for yourself, that approach could make things worse. So bottom line is you need to decide where you want YOUR life to go before anything else. One thing is sure, now the genie is out of the bottle you can never get her back in permanently ( maybe for short periods, but thats all), so whatever you decide will have to work with that.
I'm really sorry you got a bad reaction, but it's pretty common, unfortunately. There is no way for anyone to advise you, because each of us is different and every wife/gf is different, so all we can do is offer our support and understanding.
I'm tempted to say sit down and talk to her calmly, but until you know what you want for yourself, that approach could make things worse. So bottom line is you need to decide where you want YOUR life to go before anything else. One thing is sure, now the genie is out of the bottle you can never get her back in permanently ( maybe for short periods, but thats all), so whatever you decide will have to work with that.