[Sofia Bunny]

Jami

Hit nail head there

No bull shit

Just be honest and slow

She needs you to show trust and full communication

Her mind is imagining all sorts of things

Also women's acceptance wanes and waxes and even can reverse against things they encouraged at one stage

Slow, slow, slow and lots of love to her and both

Julie

I am going slow and cautiously. I have been a lot more open about choice of undergarments, and while she is not too happy about my decisions, she is a bit more accepting of it. I wish it could be more of a bandaid approach and just rip it off, I just know that for her, it would be a lot more difficult to process, and the end results could prove to be quite ugly.