[tanysquirrel]

it may be, that making love to your female self, makes her question her own sexuality, and perhaps is making her feel awkward about it? Especially if she was raised in a religious setting, that can hammer home shame and self loathing in "alternative" sexual situations.

ever ask her if she every wanted to lay with another woman?
if she says no, then perhaps she senses that in you. could be your pheromones are changing too.. funny thing, pheromones.. the invisible scent that can make some one attracted to you or repel them from you.

oxytocin is the hormone of cuddliness and love and trust.. ramp up her oxytocin (through orgasm) and she will be putty in your hands