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So, cause I am impotent, and don't have sex with my wife, does THAT mean I am no longer a man??? I mean, forget about my Cross Dressing. I suppose in many circles I would of had to turn in my "Man Card" but in other cultures they might of considered me a Priest or a Holy Man. But, I am neither... ??? You make a judgment, for I cant.

no. there are plenty of genetic males who cannot maintain an erection, but it makes them no less manly. in my opinion, it would be the need for breasts/feminization etc, that would denote that one wishes not to be manly. just my opinion, others may differ.

I married my second and present wife twenty years ago when I already had ED. Viagra did the trick, but after menopause, she found penetration painful, so our sex life has consisted entirely of mutual breast and nipple play and fantastic oral sex, and it has been FABULOUS! So penetrative genital sex is not the be-all and end-all of intimacy.