03-08-2016, 06:23 PM
You and I are in a similar boat. For many of the same reasons. I truly wonder how many more of "us" are in the same boat?
20 yrs ago, my wife and I could talk about anything, and I mean anything... But since I had my heart problems, she started out VERY protective of me. To the point of smothering me.
But, that has changed over the last 10 yrs to where we hardly ever kiss or snuggle anymore. That was the main reason I didn't want to be so blatant about how I felt or wanted to do. But, it has gotten to the point that I quit denying what I was doing when she said or asked about "things".
Maybe that is the key for me? Quit denying, dancing around the issue? Perhaps, that will open another chapter and not close the book. I can only ponder and hope so.
I wish you luck.
20 yrs ago, my wife and I could talk about anything, and I mean anything... But since I had my heart problems, she started out VERY protective of me. To the point of smothering me.
But, that has changed over the last 10 yrs to where we hardly ever kiss or snuggle anymore. That was the main reason I didn't want to be so blatant about how I felt or wanted to do. But, it has gotten to the point that I quit denying what I was doing when she said or asked about "things".
Maybe that is the key for me? Quit denying, dancing around the issue? Perhaps, that will open another chapter and not close the book. I can only ponder and hope so.
I wish you luck.