[julieTG]

Perhaps this is simple

HRT is the path to transition full, but not always,

so

Only go on HRT if you have too, ie like Janet,

if your struggles break you, then you have no choice, your body is making the decision not you, so HRT it is,

but if its a mental decision and you could do without HRT ie herbs can do same job and can live without HRT , then dont,

Your not fully open with your wife and she will almost certainly be pissed with HRT as thats a different ball game, but many wifes do accept that to save the mental state HRT is essential,

Julie