[Sofia Bunny]

If I had not taken myself to hospital, for fear of doing myself self harm. Like you, I would still be sitting on the sideline, wondering. I hope your inner troubles do not take you as far as I ended up going. It's a dark place. Luckly for me my wife accepted that the Dr wanted me on HRT to resolve my inner strugles. However, it should be said, nothing is all sunshine and rainbows here either. I am still presenting as male, for my employment and my family. My wife hates what she sees, and is most defintely not looking forward to me NEEDING to wear a bra. I really wish you luck on sitting down and explaining to you wife how you feel you need to go forward. It really is not an easy talk. But in the end, you are really the only person who can make this decision, and have to live with the consequences.

Thank you very much Jannet for your insight, I appreciate it very much! I have been weighing the pros and cons for quite sometime, and I go back and forth in it all. I come so close to just blurting it out to my wife, but I know that's not the way I should bring it up, I am pretty sure that way while quick, would end in disaster! So I have to find the right thing to see and make sure that she understands what I am saying. I wish this was easier, but alas, there is no easy way.