07-09-2016, 05:05 AM
(This post was last modified: 07-09-2016, 05:06 AM by The First Aria.)
In my opinion. Yes, so far so good. I am very lucky that the professional people I have "stumbled" upon has been very pleasant experience so far.
In just some of the ideas she has freely clued me in on. Like hiding the breast hack I described.
Also, she suggested that if my wife is trying to lie to herself about my duality I could plan like weekend trips by myself to a different town maybe, just to "decompress" by going out the town en femme or just as a personal sight seeing trip. Or just do nothing at all.
She said not only does "normal" couples need alone or personal time, but especially in my case being bottled up when there is very little time to let my female side come out.
She is soooooo neat to come across, and seems genuinely concerned and very caring. I know, that is what she studied and such. But I really think she truly is a caring person. And I can ask her questions without fear of an argument or hurt feelings that I have to sometimes contend with my wife.
I sort of liken my wife to a scare little child afraid of ghost's so she simply pulls the covers over her head thinking that will keep her safe. The Therapist said she will give me some insights and hints on how to deal with that type of a situation in very near future.
She also said she would send a send a letter of endorsement for HRT to my regular Doctor should I want to go that route. Just the above, has taken LOADS off my reeling brain and worries.
In just some of the ideas she has freely clued me in on. Like hiding the breast hack I described.
Also, she suggested that if my wife is trying to lie to herself about my duality I could plan like weekend trips by myself to a different town maybe, just to "decompress" by going out the town en femme or just as a personal sight seeing trip. Or just do nothing at all.
She said not only does "normal" couples need alone or personal time, but especially in my case being bottled up when there is very little time to let my female side come out.
She is soooooo neat to come across, and seems genuinely concerned and very caring. I know, that is what she studied and such. But I really think she truly is a caring person. And I can ask her questions without fear of an argument or hurt feelings that I have to sometimes contend with my wife.
I sort of liken my wife to a scare little child afraid of ghost's so she simply pulls the covers over her head thinking that will keep her safe. The Therapist said she will give me some insights and hints on how to deal with that type of a situation in very near future.
She also said she would send a send a letter of endorsement for HRT to my regular Doctor should I want to go that route. Just the above, has taken LOADS off my reeling brain and worries.

