13-09-2016, 11:23 PM
(This post was last modified: 13-09-2016, 11:25 PM by The First Aria.)
3rd Appointment
Well, boys, boy/girls and girls, This is where I am going to place the rest of my outcomes with my Therapist.
Today, we focused on just who, and how much my family knows of my Transgenderism. And focus on separating brain (logic) from the heart (wants, fears, desires).
I told her my wife was sort of o.k. with my cross dressing, but I felt she was threatened by it. That she "wants to keep the blanket up over her eyes." You know, what she don't see , she need not accept, that type of thing. Also, that she is unaware that I would like to get comfortable enough to "go out on the town" en femme.
I also told her that my wife is the one that suggested I "come out" to my doctor about my feminization with herbs.
I told my therapist, that my daughter, "though living with us due to divorce" knows I wear bra's, but for privacy sake only. Not my desire to express my inner girl further.
She gave me a few suggestions on how I could "fully come out" with out being too meek or aggressive with my immediate family. Not sure if anyone else would like to know a few of the suggestions. But if enough post that they would like me to, I would be more than willing to post them on this thread.
The therapist also congratulated me on finding and setting an appointment with a TG specialist (Doctor). He is soooo busy, that new patient waiting list is 6 weeks right now. She said it took a lot of courage to want to explore the possibilities.
Well, boys, boy/girls and girls, This is where I am going to place the rest of my outcomes with my Therapist.
Today, we focused on just who, and how much my family knows of my Transgenderism. And focus on separating brain (logic) from the heart (wants, fears, desires).
I told her my wife was sort of o.k. with my cross dressing, but I felt she was threatened by it. That she "wants to keep the blanket up over her eyes." You know, what she don't see , she need not accept, that type of thing. Also, that she is unaware that I would like to get comfortable enough to "go out on the town" en femme.
I also told her that my wife is the one that suggested I "come out" to my doctor about my feminization with herbs.
I told my therapist, that my daughter, "though living with us due to divorce" knows I wear bra's, but for privacy sake only. Not my desire to express my inner girl further.
She gave me a few suggestions on how I could "fully come out" with out being too meek or aggressive with my immediate family. Not sure if anyone else would like to know a few of the suggestions. But if enough post that they would like me to, I would be more than willing to post them on this thread.
The therapist also congratulated me on finding and setting an appointment with a TG specialist (Doctor). He is soooo busy, that new patient waiting list is 6 weeks right now. She said it took a lot of courage to want to explore the possibilities.