[The First Aria]

Have you looked at non-binary identities?

I personally see myself as liking most aspects of being MtF transgender, though not all. That's really all it is, though some over-complicate it with lots of sub-identities...

Paula, not sure what you mean? I am trying real hard to adjust to the fact that I am now considered Trans-Gendered. I have never fooled myself on the reasons why I like to wear women's clothes when I have a chance. So, I am not for sure what you mean.

It is a hard adjustment. Believe me, I know. Transgender really just means one does not fully identify with ones assigned sex at birth. It seems to have somewhat became a euphemism for transsexual, in common speech, though it is really more of an umbrella term that includes transsexual and also many non-binary identities such as genderfluid, bigender, and so on. What I was saying is that you may be non-binary. Google it.

I am non-binary. I want breasts(obviously or I wouldn't be here), and have had longish hair most of my life, and crossdress, but I don't think I am exactly a woman, and have a lot of reservations about SRS and living full time as a woman. While some might try to push you into some binary female gender box, you don't really have to do all of this just because you are transgender.

I really don't feel like she is, but I have stressed to her that, to me, is like picking colors of a shirt or pair of pants. Some days a person may like Reds, or Greens but that doesn't mean I don't like Blues anymore.

I feel the same way about presenting. Some days I really feel the need to go female, some days I feel the need to be male. I think she gets it.