[The First Aria]

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Yes Thesurus, I think you pretty close to 100%.  At this point, my therapist is at a level I wish my wife was at in that regards. 

If it makes you feel any better, I doubt too many of us do not have that problem, so your not alone in that boat.
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Probably Jannet.  I mean even after we try to accept and come to grips with our new way of life, it's still confusing and scary.  I can't imagine what it's like for my wife.  She comes from parents, both of whom are Traditional Irish, like 3rd generation, so........