[The First Aria]

Here is mine because I realy want to thank you all for helping me understand this.

Thanks Iaboy and Lotus!
Wonderful insights and very enlightening.
Its time to go back to bed since I learned something new today. :-)
What an amazing place this is!!!
Bobbi

I am sorry...  Loosing my manners.  I wanted to thank you the other day for the response and neglected to.  Everyone has been great, I just frickin wished I had the answers is all.  

I am totally thinking, maybe I shouldn't go to the Gender Doctor, cause if all of you are right, it will put me in more of an awkward spot than I am now....